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Lanie's Articles  |   Essays From M.H Borden
About M.H. Borden
I heard M.H. Borden reading his essay on WAMC about the perils of Internet Dating and thought he was very funny and clever. He has agreed to put his dating columns on our site.

M.H. Borden is a screenwriter from Canaan, New York. He is not a member of Mass Match but is seriously thinking of becoming one.
His email address: mhborden @ gmail.com (remove spaces)
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